Sunday, September 26, 2004

WOMEN, HEED THIS WARNING!


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Originally uploaded by fionski.

I got an email via myspace from a total stranger. She asked me to read her blog there. On her profile it says "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned." This made me curious. I don't know if she's telling the truth or she's just bitter, she won't introduce herself. Then again she really hasn't divulged much about the guy concerned, just his first name.
Ladies, forewarned is forearmed. Whether this is true or not, pays to be careful. Kaya mga stalkers and users, magbabayad din kayo!

Do you think this is true? You be the judge.

WOMEN, HEED THIS WARNING!

he sent sent me a msg in myspace introducing himself as based in new jersey with his co. based in new york. he said he arrived in manila on oct 2003 and is currently assigned here until 2006 heading global finance. he gave me his mobile number and i responded. he said he is just recovering from a failed relationship with a live-in partner for 3 yrs. whom he caught in bed with his bestfriend. that he had been badly hurt and lost faith in any relationship but now he is opening his doors again. That he signed up on myspace because he is looking for someone who would make him feel "alive" again.

i guess he's telling this sad story to melt the heart of any woman and sympathize with him. he wanted us to meet but something tells me not to trust him easily because he gave very limited info on his profile. i tried what i could get about him from viewing his profile. i noticed he's been adding married women on his list. if he is after a serious and lasting relationship why would he do that?

i visited all the profiles in his frnds list and chanced upon one with his comment posted on it saying exactly the same thing he said to me. that he chooses her among all the list in his profile. i felt betrayed. obviously he hadn't been honest and it gave me the impression that he just wanted to use any trusting woman who responded.

luckily, i was wise enough to check and find this out before i regretted it. i know that i shouldn't immediately trust any1 i meet on the internet but my doors are open for real friendship.

I was able to contact some of those who were in his list which he deleted and true enough some of them have heard the same line from him.

if it were true that alex had already chosen one among the women listed on his profile dapat stop na s'ya but why is he still reaching out to other women? What is he really up to? He treats women like commodities in the market.

the worst that could happen to any woman is to end up feeling she had been used by any man. you lose your self-respect and dignity. anyone could easily fall for somebody like him only to regret it in the end.

i feel responsible to give this warning to other women in my space. don't let anyone exploit you. Beware of ALEXANDER!



ella_bb.JPG, originally uploaded by fionski.

14 comments:

Cerridwen said...

I find it truly pathetic that a man will go through all this just to score an easy sex.

What men like that do not get is that women in the net are not all deprived or looking. Neither are we gullible or stupid not to use our resources to eliminate our doubts.

Just because women are not in any relationship do not mean they are hungry for one. We can survive without using or fishing for men but can a man say that, especially those who do not think to use their brain that they can't always get away with their crap even if they provide limited or deceitful information. (and yet they go through such a greath length to find so many things about you)

These kind of men are pathetic! (and there are women like that too) Go out there and socialize, if you can't use your face & pseudo-charm, use your pocket...maybe you will be luckier out there.

I really think these guys are just so ugly (inside & outside) that is why they can only resort to these low life ways of elevating their ego. Ewan!

fionski said...
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fionski said...

Hahaha! Strong words Cerridwen. I think men who do these crazy things have psychological problems. Either they have a screwed up childhood or they have self esteem problems.
What session are you talking about? The one with the psychic? Di pa ako nagpapakita sa shrink ha, mahal eh kaya sa manghuhula na lang kasi mura hehehe.

Cerridwen said...

weak bones and brains needs strong words to soften the prick hehehe actually that was a d*ck but I am a lady so I soften it up the best I could :P (sorry for the ugly words used.)
Ate fions so there was really a charge for that psychic session you had then. I was under the impression a real psychic do not charge to keep their power (duh! am so naive) that is why I asked

fionski said...

Tom told me that she doesn't really want to charge but she has to pay for her fare and cellphone load(when someone texts her) and all other expenses. I guess when you have some sort of talent you can always exploit it hehehe. There are those who do not charge simply because they do not do readings on a regular basis. MT does kaya pinagkakakitaan na niya.
You want a reading?

Cerridwen said...

I haven't had the chance to try anything like that yet but there is always the first time. :) how does she do it...I can't fly there ate fions hehehe

fionski said...

Ay you wont fly here? Sige I'll lend her my broom so she can fly there. Hehehe!

Anonymous said...

I posted here before commenting about guys saying anything and doing everything just to score. As a guy, I can tell you this with certainty. Kaya careful kayo :)

Cerridwen said...

must be a common thing for a guy to do eh? I was even told a guy who warns is a guy who knows - because he has done so.... and yes we are careful, or else what point is this postings and comments for?

Anonymous said...

I would agree with you that it's common even for guys already in a relationship IF given the chance but there are also others who remain faithful to their GFs or wives. But I disagree with your claim that those who warn know because they have done so. That is really an unfortunate and sad statement. There's a lot of good people who know and therefore warn others(i.e police officers, ordinary people with conscience, people who work for the protection of children and many more).

fionski said...

I guess Anonymous is faithful to his gf/wife/significant other. He has mentioned in the betrayal blog that he doesn't have the guts to cheat on his SO. Tama ba?
Dapat lang!
:-)

Anonymous said...

I guess you can say that--no guts(although I would have preferred a milder term) :)

fionski said...

Oh, my mistake. You don't have the, uhm, capacity to cheat? Would that be ok?
If you don't have the capacity to cheat then you are not a typical Pinoy lover.
Panindigan mo yan ha!

Anonymous said...

no offense taken :)