Friday, December 03, 2004

Lights, Camera, Relationship!

I'm not surprised his relationship is on the rocks. It was already rocky to start with. Imagine wala pa silang 1 month they were already bickering?! Wow! Wala na akong bilib sa kanya noon pa. A week after we started talking with him I could sense he is weak. If you are a man, you should not be going around talking about your relationship problems to all your friends, esp to us who do are practically strangers to your partner. It doesn't look nice, hindi gentleman ang ganon. If you need to talk then talk to someone you can trust, someone who can be neutral and could tell you your mistakes. Even when my ex and I were still a couple, I never talked to my friends about our problems, not even to my family. When we broke up they felt bad because they though I lost one great guy. It's not right that he looks bad to others when he cant even defend himself to them. This was before I knew about his kalokohan ok? Hehehe.
Still, when you are in a relationship, you don't go around saying the negative things about your partner to people who are close to you. They will have a different perception of your partner and when the time comes that you have to introduce your partner to your friends, iba na tingin nila sa kanya. Hindi mo na puwedeng bawiin yon, iba na tingin nila sa partner mo, kawawa naman siya.
All relationships have problems, no single relationship is perfect, no one is perfect. Just think if your BF was talking how immature you are to his friends, syempre they will take his side. They will think you really are immature diba? Yun pala you are like that because he is an asshole as a BF but not as a friend. Still ikaw ang masisira. Don pa lang, na turn off na ako sa kanya. I wanted to point this out to him but... I decided it's best not to meddle with someone's life. Matanda na sila, alam na nila ang tama at mali. Baka sabihin pakialamera pa ako. Hehehe.

If he is unhappy with her, then why is he still in that relationship?

7 comments:

Ate Sienna said...

sabi ni inang ko, when you're in a relationship with someone you love, you don't go around telling people about how bad he is. mas lalo na raw kapag nagkakagalit kayo. kasi after awhile, patatawarin mo sya, pero ang mga kaibigan mo, pwedeng hindi sya patawarin at tandaan na nila yun forever. so pagkatapos nun, masama na tingin nila sa labyudoods mo. ayaw mo naman nun...

Arrow-N said...

whatever happened to consideration and discretion in a relationship

fionski said...

Engsakli Ate Shenanigan...

Discreet ka ba Arrow? Hehehe.

Arrow-N said...

:) ahuh discrete ako.

BTW, Happy B-Day!
(saw it in one of the comments)

Cerridwen said...

at the same token, it can also backfire but then that is if you are not careful enough as to who you share your frustrations with. Sometimes when we hurt, (esp in the heart area) we want or need to vent or let out frustrations. My question is then, who is the best person to hear this, a trusted friend, family or a total stranger? Hard to find right person to talk to nowadays. When I mistook this one guy to be that one, he proved me wrong.

watson said...

Dear Ate Fionski, I can neither confirm nor deny the rumors.

Whoops akala ko showbiz time na ulit dito. hehehe. Happy weekend!

Huseng Busabos said...

Best person or people to share your frustation or happiness with - your "co-bloggers" - he,he,he.... joke lang but hey, we can impart some good advice or play devil's advocate! But of course don't take us seriously - co-bloggers advices are personal opinions only but at least straight up - walang halong bolahan! and why is it this guy still in a relationship you asked? - baka hinihintay mahinog yung bunga at sya ang pipitas!
DISCLAIMER:
This is just my opinion. he,he,he...